6 Sex Mistakes Men Make During Sex

Hey guys, think you know everything there is to know about having sex with women? That erotic encyclopedia you carry around in your head may contain a lot of basic errors and omissions about women's sexuality -- errors that can lead to sex mistakes.

That's because -- after learning the facts of life -- most of us are left to figure out sex for ourselves. Guys tend to take a lot of cues from adult movies, and we all know how true-to-life those are. Experience may help, but many women can be shy when talking about what they like.

To help us with some sex tips, WebMD asked two acclaimed sex educators, Tristan Taormino and Lou Paget, to tell us what they think are the most common sex mistakes men make with women.

Taormino is a prolific author, lecturer, and video producer. Her latest project is the Expert Guide educational video series from Vivid Ed.

Paget is author of The Great Lover Playbook and other sex manuals, and she gives seminars nationwide.

Sex Mistake No.1: You Know What She Wants

Men often make assumptions about what a woman wants based upon what they've done with other women. But women aren't all the same.

"You develop a repertoire as you mature sexually, but you should never assume that what worked for the last person is going to work for this person," Taormino says.

That applies not only to sexual predilections, but also to relationships, she says. "There are women who can have no-strings-attached sex, and women who can get attached very easily, and then everyone in between."

Sex Mistake No. 2: You Have All She Needs

Some women can't have an orgasm with less than 3,000 rpm. No human tongue or fingers can generate that kind of vibration. But men typically think something is wrong if a woman needs a vibrator.

"If the only way that a woman can achieve orgasm is with a vibrator, she's not broken," Taormino says.

Think of a vibrator as your assistant, not your substitute. Many couples use vibrators together. "While you're doing one thing, or two things, the vibrator can be doing something else," Taormino says.

Sex Mistake No. 3: Sex Feels the Same for Men and Women

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Bizarre Boob Inventions

It's a well accepted fact the whole world round that there’s nothing better than a set of sweet melons. No offense gay guys who don’t like boobs, that’s the fatal flaw in your whole game. Companies know that tatas are magnificent and guys will buy anything that looks like them and chicks will buy anything to help them look bigger better. Here’s a peek at some of those very products that make us bounce with joy.

Chug-A-Jug

What better way to bong your beer than two giant boobs? Just pull the nipple rings and let the bong races begin.

The Kush

It’s a breast separator that allegedly reduces the likelihood that your chick gets wrinkles in her cleavage.

Jingle Jugs

It’s the best rack any hunter could ever mount on his wall… and it plays festive music too.

Cleavage Caddy

Once her handbag is stuffed, she can still find room in the bra that doubles as a purse.

The Amazing Magic Boob



Think Magic 8 Ball but way cooler. Need the answer to life’s biggest question? Just give this beauty a jiggle. Wish I would’ve got this when I was 10.

Emergency Bra Mask

Worried about terrorists or chemical warfare? Then you better hope the waitress is wearing one of these in case you get attacked at happy hour; it’s the bra that turns into a gas mask.

iBoobs Naughty Speakerphone

There is no better way to listen to your favorite tunes than by resting your head on nice set of… well, you can see what they are.

The Wine Rack

Busty Mousepad

This unique mouse pad features a CLEVER ergonomic wrist rest on a pair of gel boobs.

Your pals will love it and poke the gel chest when you’re not looking. Your girlfriend will probably think you’re a pervert. Mom will roll her eyes. Feminists will curse your existence!

Seriously, this is the breast mouse pad ever. Not only will you find them surprisingly comfortable, but they make excellent gifts and conversation pieces!

Natalie Portman & Mila Kunis Talk 'Black Swan' Sex Scene (VIDEO)

They made it look easy on the big screen, but stars Natalie Portman and Mila Kunis had a hard time filming their buzzed about sex scene in 'Black Swan.'

Walking the red carpet, Portman said that doing a sex scene with a friend made it, "more awkward," while Kunis had the most trouble with the crowd of onlookers.

"It's hard to have a sex scene, period. It doesn't matter if it's a friend, a male, a female," she told reporters. "You're with 100-something crew members, lighting you, repositioning you, there's no comfort whatsoever."

The love scene wasn't the only difficult part about the film -- both actresses lost considerable weight while in rigorous training for the demanding ballet scenes.

"I still have scars on my feet," Kunis told a reporter, while Portman revealed that she broke multiple ribs while in training.

Have Boobs Will Travel: Kim Kardashian Knocks Boots With Halle Berry Ex Then Jets Back to N.Y. For Nipple Pokes

These Kim Kardashian nipple poke pictures tell me one thing: game on. This boobtastic hourglass Kardashian she-bot is on the prowl. Usually Kim Kardashian goes for an NFL player, or, you know, an entire offensive line, but the male model ex-husband of Halle Berry also kind of makes sense in terms of the conquest game.
This story actually hit late Thanksgiving Eve, but was too good to get lost in the mix.

I know, I know, despite coming and going to the Lakers game together this past week, Kim Kardashian and Gabriel Aubry are just friends. Cause if you're a dude, having Kim Kardashian as a just friends kind of shopping and gossip buddy would be such a dream come true. And, if you're a chick, who better to hang out with as just friends than some eye candy airhead male model. Yeah, makes sense... c'mon, people, somebody's making a junk run on that Kardashian trunk fun! Count on it, and, enjoy.

Here, Kim Kardashian faces the stiff Manhattan morning breeze with some stiffness of her own:





And, the night before, Kim Kardashian, leaving behind L.A. and her trail of shame and tears and Trojanz wrappers.

When it comes to women’s clothing, we always have to admire the ability to make something out of (almost) nothing. Think that’s just a bit of string? Wrong! It’s a bikini! Think that’s a bandana? Wrong! It’s a shirt. But perhaps the most impressive bit of improv we’ve seen so far is the belt bra. Impressive, not because of how well it works as a brassier, but how little it leaves to the imagination. Something tells us you’d like to see some examples…

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